I had the pleasure of having my former mother's helper, Kindra, and her handsome new husband at my house for a couple hours yesterday. I have no idea where or why Gregory is holding a phone from 1985. Let me guess. Jerry?
Get this. She is not a witch anymore. Her husband's Presbyterian, so they are going to raise the babes Christian. Yawn. It would have been more fun to envision them flying around on broomsticks, wouldn't it? On the bright side, Kindra can now officially run as a conservative in the Tea Party and just say she "dabbled in witchcraft" in her youth.
So here is where we are at. Since they will begin their adoption adventure as foster parents, the state will require they have three cribs to bring the babies home. If anyone in Las Vegas knows of anyone getting rid of a crib, I need you. I am also going to get Jerry involved in the crib hunt. The state does not allow co-bedding, even though we know that babies would probably prefer to be next to each other at this age.
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That means four cribs, people. As you can imagine, I am scouring the ads on Craigslist right now. If anyone else has a heads up, call, text, email, yell down the street, etc.
Before Kindra and her husband arrived, I told the kids, "You need to be on your best behavior. We do not want to scare her husband."
Then we had a lengthy discussion about adoption and what it is and why people do it. Fortunately they had just watched Annie, so they somewhat understood.
Then right as Kindra pulled up, Greg drove in with Scott, Scott's father, Mr. S from Chicago, and Scott's son, who is here for football camp. That rose the decibel level in our house to slightly less than a tarmac.
As the kids were running, screeching, roughhousing, and tackling Scott and his son, Scott David, I asked Kindra's husband, "Do you like noise?"
He assured me he likes noise. That's a triplet parent requirement.
Then as we talked, the kids began a slew of art projects Scott's sister, Debra, had sent from Chicago. Thanks, Debra! The whole table was instantly transformed into a giant art station.
I asked Kindra's husband, "Do you like clutter?"
He can live with it. Oh, he will, trust me on that one.
So Kindra is going to keep me in the loop. They may be getting them on Wednesday. There are other details pertaining to medical issues, which I do not feel comfortable sharing on a public blog, but in the future we may need to put our collective heads together and see who has "been there, done that" and get advice.
Greg was even supportive of the new couple and their adventure. The excitement is contagious.
He said, "Let's us know what we can do. We will help you in anyway we can...............except we won't watch them. But any other way."


Oh, wow, that sounds overwhelming! But Kindra will have lots of help and advice so she's lucky that way.
ReplyDeleteWhat is Sarah pouting about? And were the two ladies you beat to the finish line at Target the same two from the last couple of years who said they were buying for charity?
Yeah, right.
Anon- HA! I ran into them a couple days ago on my scouting adventure. I specifically went to a different Target to avoid them this year.
ReplyDeleteAnd I have no idea why Sarah was pouting. It's too hard to keep track. :)
Wow - Wednesday? That's really soon. I Kindra is excited and scared at the same time.
ReplyDeleteYou may have already seen this but I found this ad on Craigslist:
http://lasvegas.craigslist.org/bab/2161774629.html
and this one:
http://lasvegas.craigslist.org/bab/2161467718.html
Keep me in the loop if there is anything at all I can do to help.
https://www.buyfuzzoodles.com/?mid=859528
ReplyDeleteSpeaking of craft projects:
Is it just really REALLY strange that I saw a commercial for these things and thought of your family?
I've got to get off this computer of adopt triplets of my own.
But how exciting that you might have 4 new triplets coming into your life. Can't wait to read all about it.
So crazy but so fun! I'm one of those crazy Mormon people who would probably wish for or adopt triplets...I'm just crazy like that.
ReplyDeleteIf I wasn't going to Europe and school this summer I'd say Kindra could hire me because there is nothing that I love more than nannying...but I have to finish my college degree sometime...and I'd like to do it sooner rather than later...but Kindra is going to have so much fun with these babies!
Good luck!
Be aware that the state might be picky if she gets a drop side crib, which a lot of the craigslist ones are. They are basically all recalled and thought unsafe (we had one with our first and it seemed safe, but the state is probably picky!).
ReplyDeleteI had my baby yesterday! Yeah! Exactly 1 week late, my 4th child entered the world at home in a tub of water with 2 midwives standing by. I did not video tape it. I did not have photos taken, but it was amazing! He and I are doing fabulous! I'm so excited to read about Kindra and the Irish quads - Wow...from 0 kids to 4 witha new marriage, she is a BRAVE, BRAVE woman! I also agree about the drop rail cribs, NO-NO big time this day and age! I had mine when my son was born, it was manufactured in 1980 and it was the craziest, creepiest thing ever...we have a static rail convertible now, LOVE it! Would never have anything else! Look for static rail cribs, much safer!
ReplyDeleteSabrina- You did a HOMEBIRTH. OMG. You CRAZY. Are you going to post about it on your blog? Congratulations!!!! How exciting!
ReplyDeleteOkay, now you guys are freaking me out. Of course they can't have drop side cribs. UGH. I need the smelling salts again.
Would bassinets do at this age? That would probably suffice until proper cribs could be located. I'll bet there are nice bassinets to be found. Even Pack-N-Plays. Those would probably be more useful in the long run.
ReplyDeleteThe 4th triplet sounds really difficult to me. He'll be mobile very soon, if not already. Kendra is going to need every member of her family to help!
I am new to your blog...found you via Zzusanna's blog. Not that I subscribe to the same crazy beliefs she does but it's fantastic entertainment so I stick around..LOL!
ReplyDeleteAaah how I would love to have multiples..maybe just twins though..haha!
Love your blog...loooove your humor!
so exciting! i love what greg said at the end. that would SO be me!!! LOL!
ReplyDeleteI will blog about it in a couple of weeks :-)
ReplyDeletepeople, what is wrong with drop-side cribs? do tell - it's all my sons ever knew - is it a new, founded fear or paranoia?
ReplyDeleteYou know the other day when you said you were getting a J O B...I think you better pass.You have the chance to stay home and play with more babies. On a serious note, she is one lucky mom to have already seen the awful times and know that she will need to ask for help...and to have you there for support.
ReplyDeleteBecky
Apparently, there have been 35 deaths involving drop-side cribs out of the millions used for decades,and most of those because somebody put the sides together wrong. I think the ban is crazy. What is a 5'2 mom supposed to do to get an infant or toddler out of there? I see a lot of back injuries coming.
ReplyDeleteAs always, your children are adorable! I guess it's the way the light is hitting them but it almost looks like Austin's eyes are two different colors in the top picture!
ReplyDeleteTo Anon at 4:31. I am 5 feet tall and we did not have drop side cribs. I won't say it is the easiest thing in the world, but I managed to get my kids in and out of their cribs for 3 years.
ReplyDeleteThat is so awesome ... also, a bit daunting. Newborn triplets plus a twelve-month old?!
ReplyDeleteKindra is securing herself a special place in heaven!
Hey again,
ReplyDeleteTomorrow after work I will be blogging a list of things I think I will need.
I know that I already have 2 pac-n-play's with the bassinet attachment. But for state requirements I have to find cribs.
They didn't say anything about not getting a drop side crib, but I will get in touch with my case worker and find out for sure. And if they were recalled how come wal-mart still sales 'em? (maybe cost-co or sam's will have inexpensive ones? I didn't like the 99$ ones I saw at wal-mart)
I am kinda sad I missed out on that target sale. Durn work keeping me to busy to catch the deals.
Michele and other moms, So I saw the babies today during scheduled visitation. All three are doing very well.
On my new blog I'll post a picture soon.
After next wed I should have a bit more information on time line and I will find out exactly what the biological mom is passing along to me as well.
BTW I am super excited to meet every one. Thank you Thank you all for the continued prayers and helping for the search of cribs.
~Kin
Sorry - I can't stand that the "birth mother" is having more children when she can't even take care of the one she has. I think it is so great to have people like Kendra but I am all for sterilazation! (Im angry so I can't spell!)
ReplyDeleteWe wonder why children are so screwed up when they get older.... these kids will be scarred because of it and with Kendra at least they can have some what of a normal like.
Sorry - they make people have licenses to cut hair, do nails etc. but anyone that can spread their legs can have a baby.
Go figure.